Essential Oils for Romance

What the world needs now, is love sweet love! I’m singing this song today in preparation for Valentines Day! I can’t believe it’s next week!

V-Day is such a fun holiday, but since our kids have come into the world, my husband has totally gotten the Valentine’s Day shaft… I find myself far more interested in buying fun Valentine’s treats and gifts for our little ones and less interested in going on a date night during this holiday. I think it’s because if I’m celebrating love, the best type of love I feel in my world is for my family. Romance in marriage has changed a bit… since we became a family, our love has shifted more from romantic to familiar. Now, before you jump to conclusions, my husband and I are still romantic and go on dates and enjoy each other’s company in romantic ways, but the love inside of a marriage that I’ve found has been the most intimate and wonderful has been the love I’ve come to experience as he’s become the father of my children.

So, when Valentine’s Day comes along, it’s THAT love that I find myself inclined to celebrate and the love we have together for our child… far more than the mushy gushy romantic love that got us here in the first place and that we still have, but have to work to bring it out [hello, parenthood]. This year, our schedules only permit a family Valentine’s celebration, so we will have to plan a date night later. But enough about us…

It’s no secret that I love essential oils. I love that each fragrance can serve a purpose in life from healing to relaxation to… yes, you guessed it when you clicked on this title… romance. There are some specifically-used essential oils for romance that bring out feelings of sensuality and love. Sandalwood is said to clear the mind and calm the emotions to help place your relationship front and center. Rose is said to increase the sex drive [is that why Roses are a husband’s go-to?] and Ylang Ylang and Jasmine are said to be aphrodisiacs! Who knew? Luckily, they are some of the more fragrant smells out there. The following is a list of essential oils for romance:

Yang Ylang
Cedar wood
Clary Sage

When it comes to using essential oils, I choose to use oils from NOW Foods. They source the best oils and quality is key for them. I trust everything from this company, which is why I endorse them whole-heartedly and I use their products in my home!

So, how can you use these oils to create and cultivate a romantic environment for your spouse? Here are 3 ways, incorporating 8 different oil blends, to make Valentine’s Day a bit more romantic using aromatherapy!

Set the Mood with Aromatherapy:

Using an essential oil diffuser not only makes your home smell great [it’s a non-toxic alternative to candles], it’s a great way to prep your home for a special date night at home this Valentine’s Day. Here are 2 blends that will cultivate romance and make your home smell amazing!

Aromatherapy Oil Blends:

The Love Shack
8 drops of Rose
3 drops of Ylang Ylang
2 drops of Clary Sage
1 drop of Nutmeg
5 drops of Orange

Honey, I’m Home!
1 drop of Grapefruit
2 drops of Clary Sage
3 drops of Frankincense
1 drop of Myrrh
1 drop of Sandalwood
1 drop of Cinnamon

Draw up a Romantic Bath:

Make Valentine’s Day special by drawing up a romantic and relaxing bath using these essential oils for romance. These bath blends bring together the most sensual oils that will keep the fire burning! Take 1 Cup of Espom salt and add the oils to the salt, let them sit for about 5 minutes, then add them to a hot bath. To make the bath moisturizing, too, pour some jojoba oil directly into the water and make sure you rub the oil [which will smell amazing] into your skin as you bathe. Be careful, though! This will make you very slippery!

Romantic Bath Oil Blends:

Romance Bath
2 drops of Rose
3 drops of Ylang Ylang

Citrus Love Bath
3 drops of Ylang Ylang
4 drops of Grapefruit

I Love You Bath
2 drops of Ylang Ylang
3 drops of Patchouli
1 drop of Geranium
2 drops of Clary Sage

Give your Spouse a Massage:

Want to treat your spouse to a spa treatment, but you’re on a budget? This is a great way to incorporate a unique experience without breaking the bank. Just blend these essential oils for romance with Jojoba oil and there you have it! Giving a massage is a great way to say “I love you” and to serve your spouse. I love these blends because they’re non-toxic and good for the skin! Win, win, WIN!

Romantic Massage Oil Blends:

For Him Massage Oil
2 ounces of Jojoba Oil
12 drops of Cedarwood
8 drops of Clary Sage
20 drops of Ylang Ylang
8 drops of Patchouli

Will You Accept This Rose? Massage Oil
2 ounces of Jojoba Oil
14 drops of Rose
12 drops of Jasmine
12 drops of Frankincense

For Her Massage Oil
2 ounces of Jojoba Oil
10 drops of Rose
2 drops of Ylang Ylang
8 drops of Lemon
2 drops of Frankincense

Just FYI:

This post was sponsored by NOW Foods, as in, they provided the product used. The recipe and thoughts on essential oils and claims of the way they work are my own and do not necessarily represent the thoughts and beliefs of NOW Foods. I am not a physician or a specialist by any means! That said, I only work with brands that I stand behind personally and that I use in my daily life so, whether sponsored or not, any product recommended on this website is something I recommend to anyone in my day to day life.

**Natural essential oils are highly concentrated and should be used with care. Do not exceed dilutions recommended for this recipe. For adults only. Keep out of reach of children. Not for internal use. Avoid contact with eyes. Consult healthcare practitioner before using if pregnant/nursing. Not intended for use with pets. Discontinue and consult your healthcare practitioner if rash appears after skin contact.**

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  • April Neill
    Posted at 15:20h, 13 February

    Awesome post! Thanks for sharing these great ideas.

    • [email protected]
      Posted at 12:52h, 21 February

      Thanks! I love finding new and fun ways to use EO’s!

  • alessandra
    Posted at 11:59h, 15 February

    awesome! i love essential oils. i use few now and some other organics that i buy. im going to try the epsom salt.

    • [email protected]
      Posted at 12:53h, 21 February

      I love the EO’s from NOW Foods! They’re my favorites!

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